Will you do the ALS ice bucket challenge?


Probably not, partly because I am still recovering from meningitis and so the thought of doing anything out of bed is a bit overwhelming, but also for other reasons. I worry this makes me a totally humorless party pooper, but… 

ALS is a terrible disease and there isn’t enough research money devoted to it. Raising money for ALS research is important, and while some people complain that the whole ice bucket challenge thing is mere slacktivism, the ALS Association has raised millions of dollars it otherwise wouldn’t have raised. And that’s great. This has been an extremely successful campaign, and I think it’s wonderful.

That said, I have mixed feelings about tying fundraising (or awareness campaigns) to stuff like the ice bucket challenge. Here’s the question: Why are we raising money for ALS instead of raising money for pediatric cancer research or food aid or for domestic violence shelters?

I feel like the answer to that question ought to be, “We’re raising money for ALS because ALS research is underfunded and can benefit from these resources,” not, “We’re raising money for ALS because the ice bucket challenge is a thing on the Internet right now.” If our philanthropy is dictated only by what happens to bubble up to the surface of the Internet’s consciousness, we’re not making careful choices about how to distribute our limited resources. 

And when it comes to charity, everyone has limited resources. Whether you give $5 or $5,000,000 a year to charities, there will always be good causes you cannot fund. So you need a very good answer to the question, “Why did you donate to X and Y?” because there will always be a Z—a very worthy Z—to which you did not donate.

This is not meant in any way to diss those who’ve participated in the ice bucket challenge: it’s an important cause and it has been tremendously successful. And I certainly don’t want to strip the joy of giving and sharing from charity. Sarah and I are just focused on trying to make sure our giving is driven by need and the opportunity to create lasting change.

EDIT: Tumblr user mockmewithgrace points out that it isn’t just a question of donating to X over Z; campaigns like the ice bucket challenge raise the total amount of money donated to charity; i.e., money that would otherwise be spent on beer instead gets donated to ALS research. This is a key point that I failed to consider above; I wrongly imagined charity as a kind of zero-sum game. And insofar as campaigns like this increase the total amount given to charity, they are I think unqualified successes.

I am your salvation or your downfall. Your choice.
   The Strain 1x06 - Occultation.

I’m way too stressed.

I need an entire pack of cigarettes right now.


Let’s talk about Cops… #NotAllCops

No one cares about you on the Internet. No one cares about whether you support the protest or do not. You are not under attack because for anyone online to do so would require an iota of concentrated focus, a personal investment in who you are as a discrete person. You are a symbol, a representation of some kind of ideological position. You do not matter. Your words do not matter. Your blustering and your indignation are motes of dust in a tornado. Your condemnation or approval are irrelevant. Nothing you say here affects the outcome of anything else. The only thing at stake here for you is your own self-image. This exists entirely in your own conscious brain. No one else is privy to that, and no one else gives one sweet damn about it. No one will nurture it, no one will account for it, no one will preserve it. You will be transformed into a representation of something. Your words will become symbolic of a position, of an aggregation of political views. This aggregate will either stand or not stand. It will be praised or derided, always in the service of the mind-state and self-image of your presumed benefactors or detractors. You are not important enough to have enemies. Those you perceive as enemies exist only for themselves. Welcome to the Internet.
Yup (via themundanematt)


i’ve never seen police throw tear gas or shoot rubber bullets at Westboro Baptist protestors. 

They weren’t rioting, though. Westboro Baptist Church’s protests, with all their hate, do not cause a fraction of the harm of riots.